It has been a while since my last post. Here I am now!
24th of July 2015 marked my 3 years with my partner (and hopefully partner for life!)
Things have not always been easy for us, we tried hard, love hard, be super kind to make things work! I once believe that Love should be easy, however, looking at some people who make it to the so called "grow old" together, most of them work hard. The working hard includes being there, be understanding, be kind in words and action, be respecful, be forgiving, be many many positive things!
I also learnt ego (I have much of this), Burj Khalifa Pride (super high pride), lies (even those beautiful lies) will drive the relationship between two persons to the very dark part of Black Sea.
I made a video so that I will always remember that we have been super ordinary and super extraordinary at some point of our life and weeks after that 24 July, I wrote to him too, and here they are:
Your best moment at work:
You got promoted is good moment, however in my eyes, your best moment is when you thrived and conquered those bad times at work! You rock!
Your best moment as a son:
Your good act as son is even in hard times, supporting your mom still comes as priority. That man will provide for his own family just fine! However, your best is when you actually see good things in her even at times of difficulty, we are all human after all. This makes you a courageous man.
Your best as a partner:
Sometimes for you being romantic feels good to me. However, your best as a partner is when you keep all the promises, the minor to the major ones. I will trade it with nothing!
Your best as a friend:
Poor thing I can't say much. But I know you value them. That makes you best as a friend.
Your best attire:
As always, that white!
Your best is in the eyes:
That clear brown eyes are good. However, when they are filled with excitement, passion and happiness, they are the best!
Your best in annoying me:
Silence
Your best in pleasing me:
Laughter and passionate talks
Your best in accepting:
You see imperfection in me, and you welcome them with hands wide open, never complain. And because of that, I want nothing but just be better for us!
Your best choice of partner in life:
Me! I'll make sure it's something that you will be grateful of for the rest of your life!
I see those bests in a man which at the same time also full of flaws. I actually see 'through' those flaws. Only love makes that possible. So I think I am in love!
That makes my best choice of partner in life:
You! Just stay as who you are. You are good enough. Remember don't try to impress me, because al this while, the sincerity has done all the job, made me adore you.
2 - 3 years ago, in the beginning of our relationship, there are some rejection from the family due to our difference in belief! At that time, he said: "If we go through this the right way, they will apparently see it." So far, we have done as many rights as we could, and we will still do many many more right things in the future, if granted the time. Only time can tell and we can prove!
For many more years to come! I love you, Baby...
Love,
Lin ^ ^