Principles

Finally... I exploded!

First of all, I am not proud that I can't always control my tears whenever I am angry, very very angry. But this time, I am glad that I have let it out. It feels tonnes lighter. Yeah, I admint that tears have never solved any problems, but they have saved my life. Never ever tell someone not to cry. You are killing them! If they are strong enough, without YOU telling them not to cry, they would never cry. However, if someone in need to steam off , crying is one of the ways. Some others may have their own way to steam off, such as: scolding others, throwing things, hurting themselves (or others), so on and so forth.

Try reading this article: the crying game. For myself, if I do not let myself to express and let out my emotions, I will probably be lying dead by now.

I have my principle in life! I may be young, but I know what's important TO ME to live in this world. Money is important, but it's even more important to live in harmony with others. I am not the type that will start a fight, but I will continue to fight if it's for justice.

Today, I would like to conclude a few points that I should remember for the rest of my life:

1. Tears may not be the most elegant way to solve things, but the fact that it helps to relieve burdens in life is important. You should unload the big block of rocks, before you can move on in life, with lighter shoulder and without grudge!

2. Come clean if you make mistake, at the same time never repeat it!

3. At the same time, when others make mistake, give them a chance to explain before you do your judging. Never let someone take the blame for mistakes made by others. It's not about pointing finger, but it's about justice and integrity.

4. Lead by sample! Walk the talk and NOT talk the walk.

5. Turn to family when you are in need. They will always open their door for you.

6. I am not ashamed to admit that I learn more useful and valuable things in life from my dog (for its loyalty), from the unfortunate people (for gratitude shown to the smallest things in life), and many others that may not necessary have the chance for higher education like many of us do nowadays (like my parents).

7. NEVER ever say that you understand others, because no one does! We will never know what others have been through! If you want to help, be true and kinder.

8. Stands up for what you think is right! However, it does not give you the right to hurt others! You live once, thus don't be nasty, be compassionate!

Quite a list, huh?